Everything is difficult. Choose your path.

Everything in life is difficult in its own way.

If you’re broke and hate your job, that’s difficult. But it’s also difficult to be successful professionally. It will take a lot of hard work, long hours, and sacrifices to get what you want. And along the way, you have to choose how hard you want to work at the other areas of your life.

If you put all of your energy into your work, but no energy into eating right or working out, your health will suffer.

If you don’t pay attention to your dating life, family time, or hanging out with friends, your relationships will suffer.

Sure, it’s easier to be mediocre at everything or to “not care” and be bad at certain things, but those choices bring different kinds of hardship with them.

You get to choose your actions. And by doing that, you get to choose which difficulties you’re going to experience. Choose wisely.

Four keys to success (inspired by a recent BiggerPockets podcast episode)

1. Decisiveness – clearly define what it is you want. Then ask yourself, will whatever action you’re about to take bring you closer to that goal? If yes, do it. If no, don’t do it. Not sure? Give yourself a set period to decide then take action.

2. Build momentum. Does an airplane start the engine then it’s up in the air flying? No. It has to build up speed to take flight. Once in the air, it’s easy to maintain. Determine what is the most important next action step, then do it (preferably, it should be easy to implement so you can “check it off the list” and build momentum). When you do that, figure out the most important next step and do that. Repeat, repeat, repeat.

3. Measure what matters. Keep track of the most important numbers. What are the lead measures and lag measures you need to hit to achieve your goals? Budget your time, actions, money, etc.

4. Become an expert. What did I do yesterday? How could I have done it better? What did I do that I should stop doing? What do I need to learn to be considered an “expert” in my field.

Lifestyle creep, material possessions, and happiness

“People who live far below their means enjoy a freedom that people busy upgrading their lifestyles can’t fathom.” – Naval Ravikandt

Don’t fall victim to lifestyle creep. If you were happy living on “X” salary per year, as you make more money, you can still be happy living on that same salary. Buying more expensive things doesn’t make you happier, not in the long run. But sharing meaningful experiences with people you care about will bring you lasting happiness. Happiness is a state of mind, not a state on the map. If you’re not happy where you are, moving will not make it better. You must change your mindset to change your life. Choose to be happy. Life is too short to choose anything else.

Thoughts on finance, student loans, and taking ownership of your life

“Even today, what to study and how to study it are more important than where to study it and for how long. The best teachers are on the Internet. The best books are on the Internet. The best peers are on the Internet. The tools for learning are abundant. It’s the desire to learn that’s scarce.” – Naval Ravikandt

That’s the sad part about the student loan crises that we have going on right now. People are going into major debt (a debt that is not even forgiven if you declare bankruptcy) for an obsolete product. Many adults, including myself, graduated from school and do not get paid to do whatever they received their degree in. I feel fortunate to have had some help along the way and be out of debt (I received a small amount of scholarship money – for working hard and applying, $10,000 was given to me to use for school, my aunt and parents would help with groceries when they could, and I worked between 25-30 hours per week the last three years of school. I also worked about 15-20 hours per week during my freshman year when the university recommended NOT to work at all that first year. Finally, I worked 40+ hours per week every summer and after graduating school, I worked about 65 hours per week with three jobs for the first six months to pay off any remaining debt). But many people choose not to work when they’re at school. Or they choose a school for prestige and do not care about the cost. If that’s the case, they have to accept responsibility for their debts. Yes, our country has a problem that we need to fix regarding the cost of schooling. But it does not owe anything to us. And if we can’t change what Congress is doing (if they’re not going to help), then we shouldn’t just throw up our hands and say “well, that’s just the way it is. Everyone has student loans, car loans, a mortgage on their home, and credit card debt. I guess I will too.” No. You should do what you can to avoid that. Apply for scholarships every day. Work your butt off. Go to a community college first then transfer to the in-state university/college of your choice that you can afford. Of course, you will be working the whole time and saving more than you earn. When it’s time to buy a house, don’t listen to the loan officer and get the most expensive house “you can afford.” You’ll be house-poor and end up taking an eternity to pay off your mortgage. Don’t burn through cash and live paycheck-to-paycheck. Trust me, you will be much happier when you’re not worried about bouncing a check or how you can afford your next meal.

Four items where it’s worth it to pay more…

Things to not cheap out on:

1. A bed – you spend ~8 hours per night on this (1/3rd of your life)

2. A work chair/standing desk – you spend ~8 hours per day on/around this (1/3rd of your life)

3. Your shoes – you’re probably in these ~10+ hours per day (at work, when you’re working out, going to the store, etc)…these should provide comfort and support for your feet. If they look good and feel good, you’ll probably feel good too

4. Toilet paper – because cheap toilet paper is the worst…

If you buy single ply toilet paper I will think less of you
Why does single ply toilet paper even still exist?