A few simple tips to live by…
Be kind, but don’t be a pushover.
Be content, but never stop striving to be better.
Be humble in winning, but gracious in losing.
Be confident, but not arrogant.
Be a good listener, but don’t be afraid to speak up.
Forgive, but don’t forget.
Find a way to positively contribute to others every single day.
Lastly, don’t pay attention to how others think or feel about you. That’s their issue. This is not to confuse being mean or rude to others. Do what you believe to be right, which includes treating others with respect and being nice. But don’t change who you are or how you act because you think people will respond better to it. Most people will like you more for being genuine, which means you’ll make mistakes sometimes, but at least you’re not a robot. At least you’ll be real. And if you do make a mistake or realize you’ve wronged someone, own up to it. Apologize.