“Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” – Romans 12:2
“The worst thing I can be is the same as everybody else.” – Arnold Schwarzenegger
Just because everyone else has the newest iPhone, watches a tv show, or goes out partying, why does that mean that you should do it too? If you legitimately like doing those things then that’s fine. That’s your prerogative. But if you’re doing it to fit in or for appearance’s sake, ask yourself, why does it matter to me if I get other people’s approval? And, to go even deeper, if I do this, will the group that I’m trying to impress even care?
Don’t become a sheep, following the herd. Your best attribute is that you are unique. Find a way to separate yourself from the group of “normal” in everyday life. (Some statistics on what has become normal in the United States below…)