A few things to remember…

Never say anything about a person “behind their back” that you wouldn’t tell them in person. And if you do opt to “criticize” them, do it in a private setting instead of calling them out in public.

Don’t gossip.

Don’t lie.

Don’t complain.

Be positive. Focus on what you can control and let the rest play itself out.

On drama

If drama follows you everywhere you go (like at work, with your friends, etc.), take a look in the mirror. Are you the common denominator? Are you contributing to the drama and stoking the fire?

If you want less drama around you, don’t tolerate it. If others are gossiping, you have the choice to walk away or to let them know you don’t want to be involved in whatever they’re talking about.