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Don’t go broke trying to look rich.

Don’t go broke trying to look rich. ​
Don’t go broke trying to look rich.

I saw this post from FinancialSimplified on Instagram and loved it. How many people spend above their means just to try to impress other people?

If you have the “keeping up with the Joneses” mentality, it’s going to take you a really long time to build wealth. And if you’re ok with that, that’s fine. But if you have children, maybe it’s time to shift that mindset. I say this for a few reasons…

1) It is your duty as a parent to live responsibly, and to teach your kids to live responsibly. This goes for health, work ethic, attitude, teaching them about money, etc. If you have bad money habits and idolize material things or trying to impress others with your new clothes, new shoes, new car, etc, what does that teach them?

2) You don’t have to leave your adult children anything. At that point, they should be self-sufficient. I remember my dad saying that when he passed away, he wanted his last check to bounce. I have the complete opposite mentality. When I pass away, I want to leave my kids with millions. As long as I’ve given them the proper financial background so they don’t blow the money, and I’ve raised them to be good human beings (moral, just, etc), I’d be more than happy to relieve any sort of financial burden from their shoulders. If you don’t have to worry about how you’re going to pay your bills, it gives you the freedom and creativity to try new things that can be more fulfilling.

We never know when we’re going to pass away. If you’re not financially set, or if your passing will create hardship for your significant other and your dependents, you need to have life insurance set up. It’s a small cost for you right now, but if you leave this earth without it, the people you love most will suffer the most – not only emotionally, but financially too. If you needed two incomes to pay for your house, child care, food, transportation, and general living, what kind of stress and struggle will your family encounter if you pass away and they’re left with nothing?

3) You owe it to yourself. Why is it that we love ourselves so much, we are all so selfish in a way, but we care about what other people think? Why should other people’s opinions of us matter when they don’t really even know us?

You know yourself. Are you buying that $500 fancy wallet to impress yourself, even if there is no money in it? If I did that, I would feel worse about myself. Why cave into others’ expectations? Why have no money left over to spend on an experience with my wife and kids? And, not only that, but you’ll feel like an imposter too. Sure, you look rich. But you’ll know that you don’t actually have the money to back it up.

Don’t go broke trying to look rich. Don’t try to impress people you don’t know, you don’t like, and who don’t have to deal with your poor financial decisions.

We all have to start somewhere. Live within your means. If people laugh, just know that as long as you keep saving and investing money, trying to increase your income constantly while it increasing your spending, you’ll eventually have the last laugh. You’ll get to retire early when they are still slaving away in their 9-5.

Getting your money to work for you

We “wanted to have our money work for us, rather than spend our lives physically working for money.” – Robert Kiyosaki in Cashflow Quadrant

When you are an employee working for someone or a corporation, you have the least amount of freedom. You are told how much vacation you get, what benefits you may or may not have, how many hours to work, and how to do your job.

When you are self-employed, you own your job. You have a little more freedom with the choices you make, but if you stop working (if you go on vacation, get sick, etc), the money stops coming in.

When you are a business owner, you have systems and processes in place so employees can continue working without you being present. You are still working, but rather than being the bottleneck where how much production or revenue is created depends on you and your time constraints, you could literally leave for a month or more and come back to a still-functioning business. Or, as Michael Gerber says in The E-Myth, instead of working in your business, you are working on your business. Instead of focusing on the day-to-day tasks, you’re focusing on big picture goals to move your business/company forward. Do you think Jeff Bezos packages the items you ordered on Amazon and ships it to you (the employee) or does he focus on new acquisitions to grow his business?

Lastly, you can be an investor. A professional investor gets their money to work for them, providing passive income. The greater amount of income your investments make, the longer you can afford to not work if you don’t want to. The money is working in your place. Eventually, if you can get your income from investments to cover all of your expenses, you technically won’t have to work another day in your life (barring something catastrophic happening to your investment).

Over the next couple of days, I plan to lay out my background for where I’ve been, where I am now, and what my goals are for the future (regarding obtaining financial freedom). I encourage you to comment in the section below to share any information about yourself, your plans, or what you think of my plans.