What are your true priorities, not just what you tell yourself/others? What do you spend the most time doing? What do you spend your money on? If you look at those answers, it will tell you what is truly important to you.
If you say family time is important, but spend all of your time with them on the phone, what are you telling your family with your actions? If you say that you want to retire early, but spend everything you earn, is it really early retirement that you want? If you say your physical health is important, but decide to eat junk food and not workout, what is the real truth? If you say that intelligence is important to you, but you haven’t picked up a book since you graduated from high school/college, do you really care about improving your mental capacity?
You are what you do. Think about what you want your priorities to be and then take actions that reflect those priorities.